Wednesday, May 20, 2009

William's Video Tribute

William's Video Tribute from Carlyn Stuart on Vimeo.

I made this video montage for William. My goal was to chronicle his life and show a glimpse of the William that many people knew throughout the years. This was shown at William's Memorial on April 18th, 2009 in Santa Rosa, CA.

-Carly (step-daughter)

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Soon Again

Near the end of William's memorial service we played a song called "Soon Again," by Jonathan Beard (William's nephew). Jonathan composed this song a few days after William's passing. If you are interested in downloading "Soon Again," it is now available on iTunes. Please click this link or the album art above.

Saturday, March 28, 2009

William's Passing

Dear friends, I want to let you know about William’s passing on March 6th. We were in Mexico in a small town up the coast from Puerto Vallarta called 'San Pancho' (San Francisco, officially) where we’re building a home. The morning after we arrived, William died from a DVT/blood clot in his leg which led to a pulmonary embolism. Unlike two years ago, there was very little warning and it progressed so quickly that there was no time to reverse it.

When William woke up he complained of some achiness in his leg but was otherwise feeling fine. After breakfast he got up and started to walk around the gardens of the bungalows where we were staying. He said that the leg achiness suddenly felt better, but a few minutes later he couldn’t catch his breath, and then he collapsed. Apparently, a large blood clot had broken free and had gone swiftly to his lungs. Friends and I rushed to his aid and someone else ran to the hospital 2 blocks away to get the ambulance which came quickly.

The doctors and nurses at San Pancho hospital were medically thorough and also very warm and caring in their treatment of both William and me. I got to stay with him, holding his hand, stroking his hair, and talking to him as he went in and out of consciousness that last hour or two. He said he didn't have any pain but he was clearly uncomfortable, scared and not able to breathe well...they had him on IV blood thinners and oxygen, but as I understand it, there was no way to quickly clear out the clots and there wasn't enough oxygenated blood that was able to get to his lungs, brain and eventually his heart.

They made him as comfortable as possible, letting me participate in his care. When his heart stopped, they tried long and hard to restart it. When that failed, they let me stay with his body for an hour or so after he’d passed. I think it could have been a very different experience in a more impersonal large hospital, so I’m very grateful that if this had to happen that we were in our wonderful village and that we got to share those last hours together. Doctors, nurses, relatives of other patients, people in the courtyard waiting room, our contractor and painter who rushed over from the building site, everyone was very warm and loving...I remember many, many helpful and kind gestures. That caring and warmth continued over the next few days as I worked with the morticians, filled out many forms in Spanish, dealt with the consulate, the airlines…and after I got his ashes home. Family and friends have been amazingly loving, helpful and supportive.

William's family members have been warmed by the outpouring of love and respect, and the many heartfelt cards and stories about how William touched peoples' lives. We invite you to share your stories and memories of William and to join us at his memorial on April 18th.

William's wife, Susan Harman

William's Obituary

William Lewis Hazelwood Jr., 61, of Sebastopol, CA passed away in the little town of San Francisco (also known as San Pancho), Nayarit, Mexico on Friday, March 6th, 2009 of a pulmonary embolism. His loving wife and best friend, Susan Harman, was with him during his last hours. Father of Kena and Kai Hazelwood, step-father of Carly and Jonah Stuart, he was born in Cambridge, MA on February 19, 1948, the only son of the late Emily and William Lewis Hazelwood, Sr. ‘Billy,’ as he was fondly known by his surviving sisters, Pat Redd of Melrose, MA, and Susan Jackson of Windsor, CT, is also survived by brother-in-law Larry Jackson and nieces, Ruth and Lydia.

William grew up in Cambridge, MA with his two younger sisters. He was recognized in his early years as academically able and transferred to a challenging school, the Agassiz Elementary School. He then went on to graduate from the Cambridge High and Latin School. He worked at the Community Boat House where he became dock master and taught sailing on the Charles River during the summers. He first attended Northeastern University where he rowed on a winning crew team. He transferred to Emerson College, Boston, MA on a basketball scholarship and graduated June 7th, 1970, with a BA in Speech. He appeared in the 1969-1970 edition of Who’s Who Among Students in American Universities and Colleges.

William drove cross country to begin the next chapter of his life in San Francisco, California, where he was briefly married to Caroline Laron. In 1982, he met and married Brenda Wade and together they had Kena and Kai. About his daughters, William often said fondly, “I wanted them smart and healthy, and now I have to live with them!” They fondly remember him as an ‘incorrigible’ punster. ‘Bill Hazelwood’ to his colleagues, he worked many years as a Director/Producer for KPIX and KQED and was Manager of Electronic Media Communications for Crown Zellerbach Corporation for 5 years. William won a Regional Emmy Award in 1973 for Outstanding Achievement, Special Programming, as the Producer of the primetime show All Together Now, KPIX.

Thanks to a fortuitous chance meeting with a former colleague at a San Francisco gas station, William became an instructor in the Broadcasting and Electronic Communication Arts Department (BECA) at San Francisco State University where he inspired and challenged his students with the calm eloquence that all who knew him admired. His daughters, Kena and Kai remember watching their daddy direct and teach. They took great pleasure in teasing him in front of his students to shakeup his sometimes intimidating image.

William had been with his wife, Susan Harman, for 12 years and lived in Sebastopol, CA, where he founded Sojourna Productions, a media and distance learning company. He retired from teaching in 2004. He and Susan enjoyed a life full of humor, love, growth and adventures. William was a wonderful husband, a committed and warm-hearted father and step-father, and a joyful friend and colleague. He enjoyed Tai Chi, sailing, hiking, ballroom dancing, tennis, acrobatic kite-flying and traveling.

William’s sisters, Pat and Susan, remember that, although ‘Billy’ was their only brother, he liked to remind them that he was their ‘favorite brother’. Besides being a ‘brat’ at times when he was younger, Billy was also self-sacrificing and came to the rescue of his little sisters as needed. He was a good listener and a straight shooter when giving advice (asked for or not!).

William was loved and cherished by the Harman-Stuart-Beard-Hodgson clan. They will miss him greatly. His cats McCovey and Leelu will miss their daily scratches. His family, friends, coworkers, and students will miss his laugher, kind spirit and wise advice. He will be missed but never forgotten; his laughing fits and practical jokes will keep all who knew him in smiles for years to come.

Donation Information

If you would like to make a donation in William's name, here are a few foundations we recommend:

Reel Recovery

Reel Recovery offers fly-fishing retreats for men fighting cancer. Combining expert fly-fishing instruction with directed “courageous conversations”, the organization provides men with all forms of cancer a unique opportunity to share their stories, learn a new skill, form lasting friendships and gain renewed hope as they confront the challenges of cancer.

William attended a Reel Recovery retreat in 2006 during his battle with prostate cancer. He was extremely grateful for his time there, and for the personal growth and support he received. His picture is featured on their homepage (5th in the rotation). Any donation made in William's honor will be applied directly to support their 2009 California Retreat in his memory. They will acknowledge him there, as many of the volunteers know him from 2006.

To make a donation to Reel Recovery in William's name, please download and print this page and mail it in with your donation.
You can also make a donation online by credit card here, but you will be unable to indicate that you would like to donate in William's name.


National Alliance for Thrombosis and Thrombophilia (NATT)
NATT is a foundation dedicated to raising awareness about blood clots. They educate medical professionals and the public through training and brochures about the prevention and treatment of blood clots and clotting disorders. All of the board members have had personal experience with deep vein thrombosis and blood clots and are dedicated to supporting others who's lives have been affected by thrombosis.

For information on Deep Vein Thrombosis (DVT) and Pulmonary Embolisms (PE) please visit the NATT information page.

To make a donation to NATT in William's name, please download and print this form and mail it in with your donation.
You may also make a donation online with PayPal or credit card here, but you will be unable to indicate that you would like to donate in William's name.



Prostate Cancer Foundation (PCF)
PCF is dedicated to finding better treatment and a cure for prostate cancer by funding promising research programs. As the world’s leading philanthropic organization for funding prostate-cancer research,
they have funded more than 1,500 programs at nearly 200 research centers in 20 countries around the world.

To make a donation to PCF in William's name, please make an In Memory Of donation online by credit card. If you choose to mail in your donation, feel free to include a note indicating that you would like the donation made in memory of William Hazelwood.

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Memories of William

We invite you to share your memories of William in the comments.